Syaratnya Agar Wanita mampu Orgasme Tanpa Foreplay

Orgasme pada wanita masih misteri bagi bagi ilmuwan. Ada banyak faktor yang mempengaruhi agar wanita dapat mencapai orgasme. Penelitian menemukan bahwa foreplay tidak terlalu diperlukan asal beberapa hal telah dipenuhi ketika bercinta.

Sebuah penelitian yang dilakukan Stuart Brody dari Universitas West of Scotland menemukan bahwa wanita lebih suka pasangannya memiliki penis yang besar dibanding melakukan foreplay yang dahsyat. Penelitian ini difokuskan pada sejumlah faktor yang dapat mencetuskan orgasme pada wanita.

Para peneliti menjelaskan bahwa orgasme dihasilkan dari gerakan penis di vagina tanpa adanya stimulasi tambahan. Faktor-faktor seperti panjang penis, durasi hubungan seksual dan kemampuan untuk berfokus pada sensasi vagina sudah cukup meningkatkan kemungkinan orgasme tanpa harus disertai foreplay yang lama.

"Mengingat bahwa vagina memiliki jumlah kepadatan saraf yang tinggi, maka rangsangan yang lebih banyak dan menyeluruh pada bagian tersebut lebih mungkin menghasilkan pengalaman yang memuaskan," kata Brody

Dalam penelitian ini, sebanyak 1.000 orang wanita ditanya tentang pengalaman orgasme serta pendidikan seksualnya. Sepertiga dari wanita dalam penelitian mengaku akan lebih dapat mengalami orgasme dengan pasangan apabila panjang penis pasangannya minimal 14,5 cm. Tapi dua pertiga sisanya mengaku tidak terlalu mementingkan ciri khusus.

Profesor Brody juga menemukan bahwa lama foreplay tidak terlalu mempengaruhi orgasme wanita. Namun wanita yang diajar bahwa vagina penting untuk mencapai orgasme lebih besar kemungkinannya mencapai orgasme. Peneliti menegaskan bahwa yang paling penting adalah kemampuan untuk fokus pada sensasi vagina.

Dalam laporan yang dimuat Journal of Sexual Medicine, para peneliti menyimpulkan bahwa kemampuan untuk orgasme sedikit banyak dipengaruhi oleh pendidikan seksual. Oleh karena itu, pendidikan seks yang lebih luas bagi pasangan menikah juga tetap diperlukan agar wanita lebih mudah mencapai orgasme.

"Temuan ini dapat diterapkan untuk membantu wanita yang kesulitan orgasme. Pentingnya fokus terhadap rangsangan vagina menunjukkan bahwa otak adalah organ seks yang paling penting. Jika wanita dapat dilatih untuk fokus pada sensasi tersebut, maka kemungkinan orgasme juga lebih besar," kata Brody.



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Want a Better Sex Life? 5 Tips for Wome

The fact that men are more adventurous in bed than women is an age old cliche that many women are slowly proving wrong lately. Modern women have broken out of their shackles in every other stream and are more willing and open to experiment with the many types and subtypes of sex.

Maintaining an active sex life is something that’s important in every relationship, and you should ensure that your relationship is not a one sided affair with your partner taking all the new moves and decisions. There are many ways through which you can surprise your partner and show him that you’re equally imaginative in bed, and all that you’ll need is a fair bit of creativity and a taste for detail.

Tips for Women

If you’re wondering how to sweep your beloved off his feet, here are a few tips that you can try:

1. Converse During Sex: There’s nothing that can turn a man on like some dirty talk within the sheets so make sure that you’re vocal the next time you have sex. Communicate well and lead your partner by telling him what you like and what you don’t like. The more open you are, the more enthusiastically he’ll respond, ultimately culminating in a memorable night for you as a couple.
2. Experiment and Innovate: You should try out different positions that you’re sure he’ll like, and come up with creative ideas on your own to make them more interesting. Ensure that you can pull off the positions before you take the big leap, though, because some positions are not as easy as they seem to be in the movies. Choose a position that you’re both comfortable in, so that you can have a good time together. Introducing edibles during sex is also a great idea, because there’s nothing quite like tasting chocolate syrup right off your partner’s fingers.
3. Be Supportive: Erectile problems happen, but this does not mean that you both have to spend a grumpy time in bed. Men are very sensitive when it comes to issues like premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, and you should handle these problems carefully. Indulge in a lot of foreplay, even if you can’t arouse him, and make him feel more comfortable. Sometimes these problems have wholly mental roots, so he may start responding once he’s mentally clear.
4. Remember To Lubricate: Lubrication is a very important part of sex, and only with proper lubrication will penetration be easy and smooth. Sometimes penetration can be quite hard because it’s impossible for women to be well lubricated every time in bed, and buying lubricants can come in handy in such moments. Moreover, a lubricant can have more purposes than one, and you and your partner can come up with different ways in which you can use such lubricants during foreplay.
5. Feel Beautiful, Be Sexy: Feeling beautiful and being sexy is very important in bed, and this doesn’t mean that you have to dominate him in bed or wear revealing clothes. Beauty or Sexiness lies in how you carry yourself, so get a mental makeover and keep him begging for more!